Amazingly, you have found a way to give this group victim status. They are just poor victims of losing out on being victims.

I know a lot of people who are hated for their identity but many of them are willfully oblivious about it.

Better to be hated for who you are rather than loved for who you are not!

Lucky. I am one of those. At leat to this point

This

"it feels a bit like someone hates you for no reason"