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Y'all notice that we all complain about crazy partners?

But then we go and find a sane one and it's SO. BOOORING. 😪
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cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
My sister-in-law married her sweetheart, the neighbor boy across the street from where she lived. He was going to college to become an engineer and she was from a large family and they didn’t have a lot of money. She knew she had it made. After he graduated and got his job they built a house, furnished it, they got new vehicles...she became a spend-a-holic. After so many years she started complaining he was so boring, a regular stick-in-the-mud. She divorced him and dated around, married a drunk who was willing to hang out all the time. She got what she wished for but even that didn’t make her happy and they divorced. Some people don’t know when they have it made.
LegendDairy · 100+, F
@cherokeepatti someone buying you things isn't "having it made," love 🤔
LegendDairy · 100+, F
When you want to dive into their mind and smash your face because they havr the depth of a fucking puddle... BOOOOORIIIIING
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@LegendDairy He did love her. He also kept worked hard to keep her in stuff to make her happy. She wanted more than any man could give her. A life of leisure and luxury and expecting him to be there all the time with her.
LegendDairy · 100+, F
I get that that's unrealistic. But nonetheless... a man (or whoever) loving a woman (whoever) does not mean in the slightest that she's obligated to love him back. Even if he buys her things. And she shouldn't be asked to fake it 🤷‍♀️
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@LegendDairy She was manipulative in getting things. I believe he was sincere about her. And thought she was about him, they were too young when they got married. He gave her voluntarily $2000 child support plus $1200 a month alimony besides paying all the medical bills & buying clothes for the kids.
LegendDairy · 100+, F
Look. Stop reading what I'm saying just to reply. UNDERSTAND me.

Using him for his money is wrong. Manipulating him is wrong. BUT. You, or anyone else, shaming her for LEAVING when she wasn't happy is completely unfair. She can be a terrible person, but you have no right to be mad at her over the fact that she didn't share his feelings or fake sharing this feelings so he could be happy.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@LegendDairy she didn’t do the kids right either, the girls went to stay with him. That’s what bothered me more than anything else. The children.
LegendDairy · 100+, F
She sounds like a cunt. But still can't be mad she left. He's probably better off without her anyway
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@LegendDairy he found someone compatible that cares about him so yeah.