I think I'm having some sort of identity crisis. I honestly don't know who I am. Just what people see me as.

Like my appearance. When i was younger i wanted to grow a beard. So i did so, and everybody compliments on how it suits me. But now people keep telling me not to shave it off because they wouldn't recognize me. This is making me not want to be the "beard guy". I don't want 1 style to form my identity.

I also get constantly told that I have problems with my head. When I lose me temper, I get asked if I have ADHD and other disorders like that. I guess I'm not allowed to display human emotions without being told that I have a problem.