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Mindful · 56-60, F
Maybe you’re more striking than other women at work? Most men these days keep those thought to themselves thanks to training.
If you don’t like the compliment or don’t find him to your liking, say zero in response to it or else he will think you are encouraging him. Whatever you do —don’t smile! Answer with business response or the topic at hand. If he says it again you need to tell him it’s inaapropriate and you would prefer to focus on work. Write it down on your calendar and document what was said and how you responded. each incident. If he stops, let it go. Some men think women are eager or desperate for compliments. A polite reminder should do the trick.
If you don’t like the compliment or don’t find him to your liking, say zero in response to it or else he will think you are encouraging him. Whatever you do —don’t smile! Answer with business response or the topic at hand. If he says it again you need to tell him it’s inaapropriate and you would prefer to focus on work. Write it down on your calendar and document what was said and how you responded. each incident. If he stops, let it go. Some men think women are eager or desperate for compliments. A polite reminder should do the trick.