Do you find being nice hard?

I try but it doesn't last. I'm very honest with people and at times it comes off as bitchy but I do it because I don't like holding grudges against people. If you do me wrong I like to address it on the spot. Most people don't take it well but honesty keeps me from holding things in and falling into depression

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LithiumDrop

No, I’m not a bitch unless I need to be.

Like you, I’m blunt and confront problems as soon as I can... I don’t like to ignore them/hold grudges as you’ve said. I can’t.

I’m a pretty easy going person over all. I don’t put up with bullshit, but you won’t see that side unless you’ve called for it.

Maybe try to figure out why you’re angry, and if it’s worth the energy/thought...

Be kind when approached, we have no reason not to be. Unless we do... don’t let them phase you too much.

karysma · 31-35, F

@LithiumDrop I guess I take out my frustrations on other people. If I had it my way I'd rather not talk to anybody to avoid saying offensive things but they keep making conversation till I stop thinking before talking and end up staying something to upset somebody