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What was the last words you have spoken or actions you have taken which were phony?

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Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I said I was sorry and said I hoped things got better when I truly couldn’t care less.
Serenitree · F
@Keepitsimple Honesty. Good.

I think most people pay lip service to this, in certain situations. I understand why you see this as phony, but I see it as kindness.

There are times when the truth can only hurt and a few words, even insincere ones can give comfort. And what else are you going to do, if someone tells you that they are suffering in some way? Say I don't really care, don't bother me with your problems! ?

No, most people really don't care about all the ills that most others suffer through, but without that little buffer of polite insincerity, the world would be an even darker, crueler, place than it is, already.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I think it depends on the person and situation, but there are times when it’s necessary and courteous to lie. JMO @Serenitree
chrisCA · M
@Keepitsimple You could be a politician. 😅
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@chrisCA Really! Lol...what do u want to hear..I can promise you the world 😜
chrisCA · M
@Keepitsimple Lol. Just spare me your "thoughts and prayers".
Serenitree · F
@Keepitsimple Yes. Exactly. Those who say they've never told a lie either care too much about other people's woes, or are lying to themselves.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
So so true! I agree! @chrisCA