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馃槶 help a guy I've only met once wants a weekend get away!

So it's the same army guy he wants to meet again but he wants a full weekend away somewhere and I think that's going to fast. How can tell him? He already thinks I'm avoiding him 馃檨
Silentangel
26-30, F
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Adaydreambeliever 路 56-60, F
I am afraid he should respect your wishes.. if you feel it's too soon then it IS.. If you aren't sure, or you just want to take more time - a whole weekend could prove torture if you find you can't bear him.
I hate to be cynical.. but I suspect he wants to consummate the relationship and going away for a weekend is likely to ensure that happpens
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Silentangel 路 26-30, F
@Adaydreambeliever yeah it's like one minute he wants me next he doesn't because he's worried about how the job and dating will affect him and stuff mentally as well as for me too. Very tricky situation but I have said to him he's not the first military guy I've dated that's gone away a lot etc waited for him every time.

But I feel a weekend away is too much for the stage we are at.
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Adaydreambeliever 路 56-60, F
@Silentangel agreed.... I do wonder, as he is military.. if he feels he has to live for the moment.. take every opportunity, in case it doesn't happen... Even so, you aren't military and it's not right for you
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Silentangel 路 26-30, F
@Adaydreambeliever mm I didn't think of that, he drinks a lot also. Which isn't good for him. I did point it out any photos I have of him are him holding a pint 馃し I wonder if he's asking me for help
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Adaydreambeliever 路 56-60, F
@Silentangel I kinda don't think so... he may be lonely... he may need someone to care for him.. but I sorta don't get the impression he's looking for help.. He is maybe looking for immediate answers and solutions.. and spending the weekend with you would be something he would enjoy and remember if he has to go away.
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Silentangel 路 26-30, F
@Adaydreambeliever he's confusing really 馃し never met anyone so confused about what they want and such
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Adaydreambeliever 路 56-60, F
@Silentangel he sounds confused.. but whatever happens his confusion, his drinking, his anything don't come before your own needs and what you want x
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Silentangel 路 26-30, F
@Adaydreambeliever definitely agreed, he's also not used to someone like me that's able to challenge his thoughts and get what his heads going through etc
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