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Wedding dance?

When you go to a wedding and reception do you have a set time you have to leave? For me i leave right as the dancing starts i have never. 😌 i have also never seen any drama like many people share stories about. Is it really so common something big happens?
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WanderingHelplessly · 51-55, MNew
If the DJ plays the song Elvira, I'll dance. The only drama I ever had was when I got tipsy and started giving relationship advice.
@WanderingHelplessly elvira is that the lady who host halloween?
I have not had that experience at any I've attended
@Chern0bylplaygr0unds yeah it seems rare but there is a lot of reddit stories
I've never seen any drama. One time a friend got drunk and accused me of sleeping with her ex. She harassed me till I left early which was a bummer. But otherwise they're just boring ol weddings. I do like to dance though.
@EldritchFox i was forced into it once ill say never again
Yes, wedding drama is not uncommon. But there are dozens, maybe hundreds of YouTubers and on other platforms that either a) copy from other channels, mess around with the video a bit and repost it as their own. or B) Flat out create it, imply it’s a TRUE STORY when it isn’t.

And I think there are other reasons as well. One being that alcohol at weddings was not always obligatory. Sober people eating, talking and dancing are usually a cheerful bunch. Add alcohol and it becomes a potential disaster area.

Another is that people just aren’t being raised properly. They have no comprehension of the word “No.” They genuinely do not understand why it’s not acceptable to wreck other people’s things, including weddings. “I was mad” doesn’t fix a broken wedding or a broken car or a broken body. It also does not fix felonies. Sometimes you can be as mad as you like. You’ll just have to do it in prison.

It’s not just kids and adults from races you don’t like. It’s EVERY-damn-body.
@Mamapolo2016 yeah i am speaking of the minority bit its so far away from my values and my morals that i completely don't understand the behaviors
@DeadOrbit I understand you completely. I feel the same.

Audacious, performative people do not stop to consider the consequences, not their own, not others’. It usually doesn’t come from a clear blue sky. There have been previous transgressions. If there were no actions taken to prove that acting badly doesn’t get you what you want, they’ll do it again and again. Then one fine day there are cops and lawyers and judges, and they blame everyone else for their crimes.
@Mamapolo2016 what do you think should be done about it? How do we help?

 
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