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I Hate Valentines Day

I hate Valentine's Day! My mom used to get my candy and flowers on Valentine's Day. I think thats the last time I actually, really celebrated it.

But since 6th grade, I detest it. Its like a big "F" to me that romance just isn't for me. I was never the kind that got male attention. I was chubby with lots of dark hair. Etc.

My husband doesn't do Anniversaries or Valentine's Day. So now that I'm married, I see all of this stuff that people do for their spouses, and yeah, I kind of hate it.

So now its just about the kids for me. They don't have to hate it like I do. So I bought them cupcakes and for my daughter we'll watch a movie together. Mother and Daughter time.

Before, I was always lonely and every girl but me got something. And I'm a MARRIED woman, and yet, life is still the same.

So ..... I'm a bit of a Grinch on this day. I feel like this is "Let's all hate single people day" lol.

oh well.
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Julienne · 51-55, F
Tell him to get you something even he don't like it himself. You deserves to be cherish as a mom and a wife.

As for u hating singles I didnt appreciate that. Ive been used and abused for years. Never got something for VD.

Actually I could say lets hate couples day right?
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
@Julienne true. my husband still won't do that. My birthday is 2 days after Valentine's so I hate it even more, lol. My husband only celebrates birthdays of people with spiritual importance. I did not make that LIST even though its allowed. So I try to do something for myself if I can.
Julienne · 51-55, F
Aw thats not cool. Youre supposed to be the most important to him. I hope u don't buy him things for his bd but if u do then its ok. He's your hubby.
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
@Julienne He doesn't like it. So we don't recognize his birthday. I mostly just buy the kids candy for valentine's day. This year one of my daughters has decided that I'm going to be making tiny heart pillows for the family.
Julienne · 51-55, F
I see.

Well you and the kids are worthy of love and respects. Good that u do things together.
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
@Julienne yes, everyone loves the sugar rush hehe
Julienne · 51-55, F
Yes indeed! Haha !
Im just gonna stay home and watch movies.