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My bf says he won’t be able to get me anything this Valentine’s Day

We’ve been together 3 months. He’s amazing. He says he’s too broke to get me anything.
Idk. I’m so upset, I’m crying, I feel stupid, I’m mad at him, I want to kick and scream and throw a tantrum.
All girls will be showing off their gifts, but me?? No.
I already got him two cards, cologne, candy, a stuffie, and I was also going to bake him something.
I hate this.
AnonymousJSS
22-25, F
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AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
@Submissiveiendencies You know, he’s a good guy but I thought the same thing.

Without asking him anything he did say he’ll try, so I’m feeling a bit better now.
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Submissiveiendencies · 22-25
@AnonymousJSS Waite and see. If nothing drop him.
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OogieBoogie · F
I wouldnt sweat it.

Sounds like you already got the best present:
.He’s amazing.


Better a wonderful person to share your time with EVERYDAY, than presents on just one day.


Also....think about it:
Girls who show off their valentines presents need to be compensating for something right?

If hes wonderful, and he makes you happy.

Theres no price you can put on that.
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SinlessOnslaught · M
@AnonymousJSS In his position... well first of all I wouldn't have gotten into it, and secondly if I did, and you told me you're very sad, I would promise to fix it.

I avoided saying this before because I didn't want to intrude, but seeing some other responses and your acceptance of them: make everything very clear to him, and if he doesn’t improve, dump him.
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AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
@SinlessOnslaught He gets me things all the time but come on, what girl doesn’t want something on Valentines ?
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SinlessOnslaught · M
@AnonymousJSS Maybe that's how he justifies it in his head but it's not right.
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Boeing · 36-40
Tell him how you have prepared for the day a little... so you would appreciate it if he could prepare a little as well...in whichever way he finds suitable...? So you can get to have some fun together
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bookerdana · M
Amazing and broke is way better than really never amazing and gifts..i understand your feelings though
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AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
@bookerdana Thank you
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deathfairy ·
Girl, it’s as simple as if he wanted to he would.

I bet you he had money to buy fast food, cigarettes, weed, or alcohol recently.
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SinlessOnslaught · M
@deathfairy He should be baking her something.
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deathfairy ·
Anything is better than nothing. He could have colored a heart and written something.

This isn’t just about some silly Valentine’s Day gift. It’s a reflection of the future, about showing up when it matters and being prepared and accountable. @SinlessOnslaught
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SinlessOnslaught · M
@deathfairy Exactly. She put in so much effort and preparation. I completely understand her being upset.
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InstructHer · 61-69, M
He could at least make a card. Or take you out to a gallery or museum.
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caccoon · 36-40
If you talk to him about it and he doesn't put any effort in to do something for you, give him the boot. He should care about what matters to you
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deathfairy ·
Exactly, an ex boyfriend I had didn’t get me anything for Valentine’s Day but then told me he had done it for a girlfriend in his past.

Like that’s not cool. There are dollar stores everywhere. How hard is it to buy a card and a box of chocolates. Say “sorry babe I am broke so I was only able to afford you a dollar tree present this year.” @caccoon
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AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
@caccoon I told him I’m very sad and he says he’ll try to figure something out.
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caccoon · 36-40
@AnonymousJSS I hope he does!! 💙💙💙
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BiasForAction · M
Financial smarts is a good thing. Keep him.
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AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
@BiasForAction 🤔🤔🤔
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Hatt94 · 56-60, MVIP
3 months.
He can get you a card and wrap a bow around his manhood.
Doesnt cost much then.
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Jexie · 26-30, F
He can't get flowers and chocolates? I think he's just being dismissive
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MicrowaveDinner
Its a cash grab anyway 😂 just appreciate eachother like you do every other normal day
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AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
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MicrowaveDinner
@AnonymousJSS tantrum it is then
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AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
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SpectralMourning · 41-45, M
If the showing off is that important to you there are alternative methods:

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CreyvinMoorhead · 36-40, M
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