Me and my girlf are staying in a hotel for Valentine’s Day (actually the day before as the 14th was fully booked.)

I always get super nervous about stuff like this. It’s not like anything is gonna happen as we aren’t going to do stuff other than kiss until we get married. It just always feels a bit awkward as it’s ‘an occasion’ and I feel like I want to make it special. Sorry, I just need to get my thoughts out. 😬

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BritishFailedAesthetic · M

Yeah. Go to a hotel and kissing only happens. Great fiction book. I've been down your road many times unmarried and sin only happens.

If you end up having tea and watching 'Housewives of Atlanta' you're definitely friendzoned.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

We’ve been together a while, we haven’t gone further than kissing yet and don’t plan to until we’re married (we are engaged.) It’s still awkward to be together in a hotel room though. @BritishFailedAesthetic

BritishFailedAesthetic · M

@Strongtea Why would you go to a hotel room as a red blooded male and not have one thing on your mind? Come on.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Just because it’s a lovely place, we’re having a meal in the hotel and then a nice walk on the nearby beach. @BritishFailedAesthetic

BritishFailedAesthetic · M

@Strongtea And then it's bed time after a few drinks....

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Yes I suppose it will be. We don’t drink a huge amount but yes we do get drunk quite easily. @BritishFailedAesthetic

BritishFailedAesthetic · M

@Strongtea Yeah. I think this will resemble Pitbull's 'Hotel Room Service' with a single woman rather than a civilised Singapore Sling with mother dearest.

Wait for marriage.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Hmmmm I don’t think so, we’re not like that, but hey anything can happen I suppose. @BritishFailedAesthetic @BritishFailedAesthetic

BritishFailedAesthetic · M

@Strongtea Yeah. And since you proffess Christ you should know God's wrath against sin from the book of Romans.

Not something to suppose or play around with.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Which is why we won’t take it any further. @BritishFailedAesthetic

HoeBag · 51-55, F

@BritishFailedAesthetic You are k*lling me. 🤣
But no, I think we can have 100% assurance that nothing beyond first base will take place.

Maybe some red nylons and leather teddy, spiked heels, a crop rider, safe words, crawling on all fours, 50 shades, but that's all!

But with -

If you end up having tea and watching 'Housewives of Atlanta' you're definitely friendzoned.

That is all wrong, they are going to watch The Gilmore Girls.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Oh haha. But we do actually like watching The Gilmore Girls together so yes, we may probably watch a few episodes while we’re there. @HoeBag