i booked a holiday with my sister, my boyfriend is mad about it
so i booked a holiday with my sister and my best friend. my best friend was nagging me to go on a holiday with her for a while. i told her i don’t want to go without my boyfriend as she wants to go to a party place, and he isn’t comfortable with me going to clubs, so i never do. he doesn’t either.
my sister bought me a holiday to paris for my birthday, and i wanted to pay her back with one too, so i decided to kill two birds with one stone, and go with my sister and my friend.
i didn’t think he’d have an issue with it, saying as i’m going with my sister. my boyfriend went to poland last year and told me that he wants to go to this party thing, and that his sister will be there. i told him i was okay with that. he didn’t end up going but that’s irrelevant.
i procrastinated telling my boyfriend i had plans to go to tenerife, not because i thought he’d have an issue with it but because he wanted to go there with me, or somewhere, we didn’t have a definite place in mind, but i told him i didn’t want to go to tenerife with him as that’s where he took his ex of 3 years, and i didn’t wanna go do the same activities that he did first with his ex. but i still felt bad so i didn’t tell him.
i would have asked him id he wanted to come with me and my friend and my sister but he’s been struggling lately with money, so i didn’t want to bring it up.
anyway, it was a last minute thing to book this holiday. we decided 5 days before we actually booked it, and i was gonna tell my boyfriend that i was gonna book it later when i was at work. but he put me in a bad mood about something, so i left him on read for a few hours to avoid argument as i figured i was probably being sensitive as always.
so by the time i get home and my friend phoned me about booking it, i realise i only have an hour to book the holiday before is the next day as it was 11pm so i rushed to book it and was like “shit i should have told him first” i was scared of his reaction and rightfully so. when he asked where i was going and i told him, he said “so right in the strip?” he seemed very annoyed but idk why he doesn’t trust me. he’s my first boyfriend, i’ve always been very picky when it comes to men, i never crave make validation and i don’t centre myself around men and i have better morals than to cheat. i feel so guilty for booking this and might just cancel
my sister bought me a holiday to paris for my birthday, and i wanted to pay her back with one too, so i decided to kill two birds with one stone, and go with my sister and my friend.
i didn’t think he’d have an issue with it, saying as i’m going with my sister. my boyfriend went to poland last year and told me that he wants to go to this party thing, and that his sister will be there. i told him i was okay with that. he didn’t end up going but that’s irrelevant.
i procrastinated telling my boyfriend i had plans to go to tenerife, not because i thought he’d have an issue with it but because he wanted to go there with me, or somewhere, we didn’t have a definite place in mind, but i told him i didn’t want to go to tenerife with him as that’s where he took his ex of 3 years, and i didn’t wanna go do the same activities that he did first with his ex. but i still felt bad so i didn’t tell him.
i would have asked him id he wanted to come with me and my friend and my sister but he’s been struggling lately with money, so i didn’t want to bring it up.
anyway, it was a last minute thing to book this holiday. we decided 5 days before we actually booked it, and i was gonna tell my boyfriend that i was gonna book it later when i was at work. but he put me in a bad mood about something, so i left him on read for a few hours to avoid argument as i figured i was probably being sensitive as always.
so by the time i get home and my friend phoned me about booking it, i realise i only have an hour to book the holiday before is the next day as it was 11pm so i rushed to book it and was like “shit i should have told him first” i was scared of his reaction and rightfully so. when he asked where i was going and i told him, he said “so right in the strip?” he seemed very annoyed but idk why he doesn’t trust me. he’s my first boyfriend, i’ve always been very picky when it comes to men, i never crave make validation and i don’t centre myself around men and i have better morals than to cheat. i feel so guilty for booking this and might just cancel
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