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I Hate Parties

[c=#7700B2]god what a horrible night that was last night. Went to a friends birthday party and was told before hand that it would just be a small type thing. There was so many people there, so was constantly anxious while there and to make matters worse some random guy was getting really creepy with me and kept trying grab my waist and pull me close to him and saying really weird stuff, even followed me to bathroom and tried getting in while I was in there.
I don't get why some guys have to be such creeps.. wont be going to any party for a super long time now[/c]
Laughman · 46-50, M
I'm done with noisy, crowded parties. I just want to have a pleasant conversation with someone without saying "what?" every 30 seconds because the music is too loud. The best social events I like is to invite a few people over for dinner/lunch, break out the beer,wine and BBQ and the rest will look after itself.
Laughman · 46-50, M
@PlumBerries I think you should give it a try. Get some people to bring food and drinks overs so you are not catering for the whole thing and see what evolves. If you are daring, get everyone to place their mobile on a separate table so you can actually have conversations with them without people looking at their phones every 48 seconds.
PlumBerries · 31-35, F
[c=#7700B2]I sorta do that stuff anyway lol[/c]
Laughman · 46-50, M
@PlumBerries oh..I see....
Well my work here is done:/
JingleBellsx01 · 31-35, F
I hate parties and big crowds too. Sorry, you went through such a nightmare and that guy was beyond creepy. Be extra careful next time if you happen to attend another one.
PlumBerries · 31-35, F
@JingleBellsx01 [c=#7700B2]thanks. I wont be attending anything like that again[/c]
JingleBellsx01 · 31-35, F
@PlumBerries Np, that's good that you don't. I excuse myself from parties events in general because I get too nervous and anxious also.
PlumBerries · 31-35, F
@JingleBellsx01 [c=#7700B2]well we have that in common :)[/c]
Beardedguy · 31-35, M
Im sorry you had a bad time :(
PlumBerries · 31-35, F
[c=#7700B2]no need to be sorry. it is what it is 🤪[/c]
Beardedguy · 31-35, M
@PlumBerries haha yeah true ☺
PlumBerries · 31-35, F
🤗
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
People in general are strange these days.
PlumBerries · 31-35, F
[c=#7700B2]I am not good with confrontation at all. I really wish I could stick up for myself better though[/c]
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@PlumBerries I'll be your wing woman. I won't let anyone mess with you
PlumBerries · 31-35, F
[c=#7700B2]aww thanks 🤗[/c]
Pfuzylogic · M
Some people think they are irresistible when they should be handcuffed. 😏
PlumBerries · 31-35, F
@Pfuzylogic [c=#7700B2]I suppose so[/c]
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
Yikes that sounds Awful.
PlumBerries · 31-35, F
@GJOFJ3 [c=#7700B2]sure was[/c]
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
@PlumBerries. Sorry, but no one should have to put up with that shit.
PlumBerries · 31-35, F
[c=#7700B2]I agree[/c]
RoxClymer · 41-45, M
I Hate when shit like that happens, I get out as quick as possible
KiwiBird · 36-40, F
That totally sucks. Not gonna heart this thread.
PlumBerries · 31-35, F
@KiwiBird [c=#7700B2]it did totally suck[/c]
iamnikki · 31-35, F
S2dio57 · M
Knee to the crotch !!
☝🏽😀

😵
S2dio57 · M
Jiu Jitsu isn’t about hurting, it’s submission technique, as in your case, he grabbed you around the waist, you just grab his hand and slowly bend it in an unnatural position back to his person and say “hands to yourself buddy” ...
It’s an ART- glad I spent time w my son (black belt) and especially my daughter (blue-belt) I don’t have to worry about jerks like that.
@PlumBerries google it
😉
🙏🏼

PS- great exercise as well - physical and mind
PlumBerries · 31-35, F
[c=#7700B2]that's fair enough. sounds much easier just to avoid parties though lol. I might look it up though[/c]
S2dio57 · M
☝🏽😎 don’t avoid ANYTHING-
be EVERYTHING-
MAKE it a GREAT DAY 🤗@PlumBerries
I hate that right?? Ive been though that youre just like me haha
Sorry it was such a nightmare.
PlumBerries · 31-35, F
@PrivateHell [c=#7700B2]thanks[/c]
PrivatePeeks · 26-30, F
Social anxiety?
PlumBerries · 31-35, F
@PrivatePeeks [c=#7700B2]yeah[/c]
SW-User
An oldie...

[youtube=https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zqVDvLDLsjI]
Zonuss · 41-45, M
Oh ok. Parties can be fun. I admit in your situation that can be an uncomfortable position to be in. Its not really necessary. It would be better to go to a place or club where there is security and a more mature crowd if you will that can handle your sexiness with care. 🙂

 
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