I Hate Parties

god what a horrible night that was last night. Went to a friends birthday party and was told before hand that it would just be a small type thing. There was so many people there, so was constantly anxious while there and to make matters worse some random guy was getting really creepy with me and kept trying grab my waist and pull me close to him and saying really weird stuff, even followed me to bathroom and tried getting in while I was in there.
I don't get why some guys have to be such creeps.. wont be going to any party for a super long time now

Laughman · 46-50, M

I'm done with noisy, crowded parties. I just want to have a pleasant conversation with someone without saying "what?" every 30 seconds because the music is too loud. The best social events I like is to invite a few people over for dinner/lunch, break out the beer,wine and BBQ and the rest will look after itself.

Laughman · 46-50, M

@PlumBerries I think you should give it a try. Get some people to bring food and drinks overs so you are not catering for the whole thing and see what evolves. If you are daring, get everyone to place their mobile on a separate table so you can actually have conversations with them without people looking at their phones every 48 seconds.

PlumBerries · 31-35, F

I am not good with confrontation at all. I really wish I could stick up for myself better though