A man posts a post..no reaction from anyone or maybe after an hour or so one or two comments but post from a woman?? Every guy competes to respond as if it’s the biggest Black Friday sale ever! 🤣😂😅
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It depends on the post, it also depends on criteria like whether you show your face in your pfp etc.
@xbandoleerx I think there's less women here than men (real ones that is). And it's not as easy being a woman here as it seems . At least your replies are genuine .
Imagine knowing that half or more, of the replies you get are really just people wanting to jack off to anything remotely your gender ?
To think you might be connecting with someone ....only to have them enter your DM's. and be lewd and sexual within one comment .🤷 It's depressing . It's demoralizing. It makes you feel all you are seen for is your tits and ass.
We DO get more replies ...I don't argue that one minute . But we also get used a great deal. We get stalked , faked, set upon, andied if we don't comply to their sexual advances....which means it's very hard for us not to get cynical.
Believe me ....genuine replies are worth their weight in gold. And knowing they are is even better.
Would you even want 50 replies of fakery and bullshit ?
@OogieBoogie Thank you for responding in detail. The side effects of getting extra attention, just to end up with getting this feeling of an “object” being used for gratification.. You have highlighted them adequately. I agree, life as a woman is not easy. It’s true for this SW as well as for the real world. And no, I wouldn’t like to trade places for 50 headless, meaningless messages which would make me feel miserable. I hope it drills some sense in my fellow men who take everything For granted while paying no attention to emotional harm they cause.
