I am anti-sexual. Is this true for sexually active people?

I saw this video on this app I am going to delete showing this woman explains how sex is an important part of marriage and that sex is a huge identity for men (guys is this true?) and other things.

If I don't post the video it's because the link isn't working but I understand what she's saying but it disgusted me and made me wanted to throw up I keep forgetting how 99% of the population is sexually active and treats sex like it's something god-like. I don't care what the bible says I am not doing that, it's gross and depraved. That's why I don't use dialators I don't want anything in me.

I'd probably suck as a lover.