Somehow I just keep ending up saying the wrong things

Be kind to yourself.

You said all the right things to me when I was going through a hard time. In the lowest of my lowest, you offered me comfort .

You have given me your energy and time and I am immensely grateful and always will be.

And it wouldn't end with me.

I carry all the love and support I have and I use it to do good for others. And I see you doing the same.

The one thing that I learned in this life is that the tiniest things can make a tremendous difference.

Think about that in your struggles. Just not giving up could make the world change in ways not expected.

I like reading your posts. Don't be so hard on yourself. Life already is hard enough on us. If it needs help it will enlist other people to help it

If what you say is grounded in reality then everyone else can go F themselves. Be who you were made to be.