Dull Occasions

I’m finding it difficult to meet new people or enjoy conversation both on this site and elsewhere, and I don’t know if that’s on me or those I’m speaking to. Inevitably the conversation leads to “how do you do’s” or toward flirtatious remarks or compliments.

There’s a time and a place for these things but is it really so prevalent? Since joining I’ve had very few women to interact with and none at all to message, whereas random men without posts on their profile will contact me, spitting off with a complement. I’m just finding the whole affair very dull, and it disappoints me

PSA: this is to nobody in particular, but is the full sum of my experiences