Do men really know what women think of the saying "Boys will be boys" means

Well as a women let me tell you.
It's what is called an excuse.
It's a saying that is used to men who are weak.
Yes weak because it implies you have no brain, no thought process of right and wrong and it just simply states that instead of growing into a strong man you are the complete opposite.
Women do not respect men who have no self control I mean really why should they. So heres the deal ladies if you have a son don't ever justify his shitty behavior with this old school quote. Teach your sons to be men teach them to be strong and respectful. They are not wild animals that disrespect women or degrade them. They don't sit around and play videogames all day because "they can't help it" they do this because society teaches them this is what they should be doing. Crock of shit. Step it up ladies it's up to you to raise a generation of men and not man babies