is it wrong to go up to a woman on the beach and ask for her number?

@Madmonk that can mean anything

@Ferise1 it’s easy. Unattractive =creepy.

Rule number one to dating. Be attentive

Rule number two. Don’t be unattractive

@Madmonk you have nothing to bring to the conversation

@Ferise1 I’m kinda a troll but I think you are cool brother.

@Madmonk okay, let’s do it this way, how have you met women in the past?

@Ferise1 be casual. Be funny. Truly not care about the outcome of the date I’m on. I enjoy the company with no expectations. Jealousy is not in my vocabulary. This is just a few.

@Madmonk I mean how do you initiate it?

@Ferise1 it’s harder to do in public. Looks for signals. Fidgeting. Laughing Tucking hair behind the ear. If she touches you as a gesture.

First though you gotta be clean. Well groomed. Teeth brushed and cleaned. Fresh haircut. Shoes are a big deal. Make sure they are new or clean. Your posture needs to be on point. Lastly you need to be In shape. Hit the gym. Suffer every fucking day.

@Madmonk you’re still not talking about initiating, you’re talking about once you have met them.

@Ferise1 that last paragraph. Do that first then then hit the pubs clubs Home Depot church ect. Look for eye contact. Once made introduce yourself. Be natural. Be yourself. If and when she shoots you down and she definitely will. Be kind be gracious. Water off a ducks back. Never be emotional. Ever

@Madmonk yeah I know that, but I don’t live very close to town and there are no trains after midnight. So it’s really difficult for me. I was hoping to meet a woman by the lake but I don’t think it’s possible.

@Ferise1 small town?

@Madmonk if I live in a small town? Yeah, a village. There’s a couple of pubs in the next village but I went and there was almost nobody there.

@Ferise1 you have to be where the people are. If not. Check your friend zone. There might be someone who liked you in the past that you didn’t like back. Might be a good place to start

@Madmonk yeah I should move to the town/city but I have so much stuff. I just don’t have the energy. I don’t know how I would do it.
And I don’t really have friends. I don’t even have Facebook anymore.

@Ferise1 man is three beings all in one. Mind body and soul. Work on each.

Mind. Stoicism and stoic philosophy
Body. Carnivore diet. Watch YouTube videos do body weight exercises until your body wants you to die. Do this every fucking day.
Soul. Just simply go to your local church. Get involved.


Do this and things will definitely change for you. I promise brother

@Madmonk yeah unfortunately I can’t work out, I have a falling feeling, and if I run or lift weights, I feel like I’m falling into the pits of hell for days. It’s terrifying.
So I have to rely on my mind and soul.

@Ferise1 just carnivore alone then. Watch the videos on YouTube

@Madmonk okay mate, it was a nice interlude😂

@Ferise1 can’t let everyone know what a nice person I am. Everyone would want to be friends. Who’s got time for that

@Madmonk for real