Will someone please tell me the secrets to raising a boy!?

I had four girls, my house stayed clean it was always peaceful and never once did I feel overwhelmed. Welp lucky me child five was a boy and omg I am pulling my hair out. He's almost two and acts like hes ten and thinks he can do anything he wants. He destroys my house and I feel like he like to get under my skin for example He Rips all the pots out from the cabinets then yells annoying and runs away. Now it's hard not to laugh but I'm really getting exhausted and don't know how to stop his destruction. Please give any useful advice