There are many paths to being a successful adult. I will be happy if my children follow their passions and dreams, wherever that may be lead. I hope that's college, but I will be supportive if they chose another path to achieve personal success and happiness.
How can you force them? But yes, I would not accept it. If they want to be on their own, they can be on their own. It's my job as a parent, to protect my kid, if I can.
know some that forced college on child and worse mistake ever made if they don't want college on there own its just throwing money away to make them go Know one that did not know was going to college to in car on way there Big mistake she left campus with some others without permission and in bad wreck It was a Christian college where treated everyone like in prison