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InOtterWords · F
No, children do not have the emotional maturity to deal with many adult subjects. It is for their protection and their happiness and mental well being they are shielded from adult topics.
JovialPlutonian · 36-40, M
@InOtterWords or we've just labelled them adult because even we can't deal with them ourselves?
InOtterWords · F
@JovialPlutonian
There are times when that is the case, but also not.
Do you have children? They have a wonderful imagination and managing their fears can be hard. You need to learn what they can cope with.
There are times when that is the case, but also not.
Do you have children? They have a wonderful imagination and managing their fears can be hard. You need to learn what they can cope with.
JovialPlutonian · 36-40, M
@InOtterWords I admit I don't have my own but I do have a 9 yr old niece. Granted there are some things that I feel prepared to wait until she's older to come to me with questions that I wish to converse with her about but she is no doubt more mature because we share certain things because of this that others don't have with their children. But I agree some children aren't ready for this where she is.
This does not seem appropriate to me. I feel that is the parent's place to tell her these things, or another female. @JovialPlutonian
JovialPlutonian · 36-40, M
@LadyGrace that sounds rather prejudice to me but I can appreciate your belief
Not really. I just feel the father should educate the boys, and mother, the girls, as who understands their own needs better than the same gender? I don't feel that's old-fashioned. I feel that is the proper way to do it. @JovialPlutonian
JovialPlutonian · 36-40, M
@LadyGrace so you believe a man cannot educate a woman and vice versa? Do you not believe there is a lot you can educate me on being a man and you a woman and vice versa? Do you not find to oppose this belief we are only restricting ourselves?
No, not at all. I was only speaking of which parent should teach the child about sex education...dad with son, and mom with daughter. @JovialPlutonian
JovialPlutonian · 36-40, M
@LadyGrace ok I respect your belief