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So annoyed

Today is my husbands birthday, and he’s been off work all week. He hasn’t done much of anything but nap a lot and hang on his phone (for stupid auction/free give always).

Yesterday his brother came over and they went down in basement to build more shelves for more games. Then his brother stayed because they were going to try to sell some stuff on that app. He went to bed as I was getting up with our son at 5:30 am. And I’m sure he will sleep the whole day away and then his bday dinner with his family is at 6pm at a restaurant. I so badly want to just back out of going. I’m tired of being a fucking single parent when I’m married.

Fuck everyone and their stupid bullshit.

That is all.
Nebula · 41-45, F
I've been a single parent for a long time, it's pretty exhausting
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
@Nebula you’re a badass
Nebula · 41-45, F
@WaryWitchWandering you are too, you just need a break sometimes
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
@Nebula everyone needs time for themselves!
QueenOfTheNerds · 41-45, F
I can relate so much. ♥️🤗
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
@QueenOfTheNerds sorry you can
I'm sorry to hear that..
It really annoys me that some men just don't realize how fortunate they are to have someone caring in thier lives and just take them so much for granted..
It's just wrong and unfair 😕
ineedadrink · 51-55, M
Good venting, Momma, get it out. It does sound like you & himself need to talk. (As a guy, I don't say that lightly, LOL)
thepreposterouspanda · 36-40, M
That's some high school bullshit. He needs to step up. 😕
Valerian · 100+, M
😘

It can be "fixed", "changed", "remedied", but it's an ordeal akin to breaking a wild horse or
ending an triple addiction!

Sometimes it's less stress, anxiety and anger in not fighting it and accept it as the status quo.

Small steps, small successes, small victories.

"Here, YOU DO THIS TODAY, then walk away suddenly blind & deaf and sit in a hot bubble bath!
Spumoni · 46-50, M
Sorry this is happening. Perhaps confront him about it. He needs to step up.
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
@Spumoni oh I have.

My feelings just don’t matter. 🤷🏻‍♀️

It’s just me “being nuts”
Elisbch · M
Cold.. 😞.. if the shoe was on the other foot, I bet he'd be piping hot 😡 about it....(i would be)... wake up call time, sounds like to me...(imho)...I hope you can find a way to wake him up..🙏🏻🙂..@WaryWitchWandering
Viper · M
I'm so sorry 😔
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
@Viper yeah me too
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
It's my birthday, too. Sorry about that situation, been having a war with my gf too--must be something in the air.
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
@uncalled4 happy birthday
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
@WaryWitchWandering Thanks. Speaking of foul treatment by an SO, give me a sec and I'll post one of her greatest hits: https://similarworlds.com/relationships/dating/2346059-Girlfriend-did-nothing-for-my-birthday-Am-I-right

Try that shit.
SW-User
You can't just leave your partner to parent all day when you have no legitimate reason to do so. That's selfish and immature.
i am sorry, that is not fair to you
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I am sorry. I know how frustrating this is.

 
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