I find men with a temper a tremendous turn off.

Also I have rarely encountered one who is really cool headed except my Ex. Most of the men have very high temper.
I don't know why though?

If compared women these days are more level headed .

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HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F

Men like that need a woman's firm hand.

PoetryNEmotion · F

@HairbrushDiva They need the firm hand of a police officer. Or a male friend to teach a lesson never to be forgotten.

HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F

@PoetryNEmotion Why?

PoetryNEmotion · F

@HairbrushDiva So they know violence has consequences.

HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F

@PoetryNEmotion True, but why a male friend? And especially why a police officer? Nobody likes those monsters where I live.

PoetryNEmotion · F

@HairbrushDiva A man is better equipped to handle another man. Police officers do not like abusive men. I respect them. They always help. They are protectors.

HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F

@PoetryNEmotion You respect abusive men? Nobody in my neighbourhood does. And very few people around here respect the police either, for various reasons. They are not seen as helpful or protectors at all.

As for a man being better equipped to handle another man, not necessarily. You shouldn't be judging people by gender in this day and age.