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Full meltdown 😵

My son had a full meltdown today in the shopping centre he just layed on the floor and refused to move, over a silly toy,,he wants every single toy and game even when I explained it to him ahead that we won't buy everything and even though I just bought him many other toys, and paid for several rides and a huge ice cream cone, but he still wants it, anyways I pretended to leave and it didn't work, so I tried to carry him and leave but I had to many things in my hands, and he was too heavy, I refuse to cave in specially after my husband gave me a long lecture about how I was rewarding his bad behaviour which made him do it everyday, he did this in several shops and I still refuse I still spent a lot of money in the games but I feel like I won't eventually because he stopped the meltdown and followed me eventually, even though I didn't get what I wanted and I ended up spending way more than I budgeted,,,probably won't be going out together for a while but I think we had a good time.
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Prison1203 · 61-69, M
Next time he does that lay down next to him and start doing the same thing he is and he will stop from embarrassment
Lilnonames · F
@Prison1203 haha and she will die from embarressment
Prison1203 · 61-69, M
@Lilnonames or get applauded for stopping his little tantrum
Pretty normal, sounds like a fun and regular day out with kids.
EagerDaddy · 41-45, M
@InterdimensionalSideEye Indeed. If more or less a young toddler: very familiar, won’t be the last time!
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
Don’t cave in to him
Be stronger
Every time you cave in and buy something he becomes stronger
Refuse to buy anything and eventually he will come around
@Strictmichael75 In our case, the trip was to buy toys. We were happy with the load up the cart with no resistance but at checkout time most of them got classified as worth waiting for or otherwise not needed this trip. Zero purchases wouldn't have made any sense. And we had a great life together with the put most of them back policy!
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
@Alfred22 Wonderful
PDXNative1986 · 36-40, MVIP
Can't imagine why anyone would choose to be childfree /s
EagerDaddy · 41-45, M
What age is he?
@EagerDaddy 40-50 now and about 8 when he tried the floor briefly.
We had a policy of putting any toy he said he wanted in the cart. We often ended up with way too many. So, when it was time to leave, we gathered the toys together and asked which ones he really, really wanted. After that winnowing, we bought most of them. We didn't go too often and in those days ToysRUs was convenient. So, we only ever had one lie down on the floor issue. We just waited and after about a minute or two, he got up to go look at more toys. Never did it again. An only child which helps and a very clever and gifted with language person.. Middle aged now and quite happy.

 
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