Imagine your bad parts being so bad that no one stays for the good.

That's me. I'm just not worth it. I have an extremely ugly side - the fear of abandonment and the incessant need for affection and reassurance and putting me above other people on your priority list because it's something I didn't receive from my primary caregivers and constantly nudging you to do that to the point of public burstouts when I'm not put before the other people that I have burstouts in front of...... Which only makes my fear all the worse.... Which only makes my reactions all the worse.... Which only......
It's a vicious cycle.