I hate when it's assumed I'm a bad mother because of my past and present. You don't know me so don't pass judgment

I work in adult entertainment and have for a very long time. I also used to wait tables but the money wasn't as good. I hate when people find out about my work or what I used to do and attack me for it. Oh you must be dumb or you must be a bad mother. Your kid must be ashamed of you. I bet you don't know who the childs father is. Blah blah blah I've heard it all. I do know who my sons father is. I actually did date him he wasn't a one night stand. I take great care of him. He never goes hungry, he always has something to wear that's clean and in good shape. He has a place to live. He always has a Christmas and a birthday present and he doesn't lack anything he needs. For being a single mom i think I've done a great job.