I Have Pet Peeves

I hate it when people point out my mistakes and tell me what I should've done when I'm aware of them and I already know what I should've done. They don't realize that mistakes are accidental, not purposeful. I hate unsolicited advice and when people tell me how to do something or if they do something for me before asking me if I want them to do it for me. I'm capable of doing things on my own and figuring out how to do things. I'll ask for help only if I need it.

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fernie2

Have you told this to them?...because they can't read your mind, they were helping, that was nice...they had no clue you were hating it...you hate too much.

joahola98wj · 31-35, F

@fernie2 I tell them whenever they do it. It's not nice that they do it. Hate is a valid feeling. You shouldn't tell people how to feel.

fernie2

@joahola98wj you hate too much.....too much dear

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joahola98wj · 31-35, F

@fernie2 Why do you say that?

joahola98wj · 31-35, F

@fernie2 It's similar to saying that I don't like olives and you reacting by telling me that I dislike too much. Are you the type of person who likes other people dictating what you should like or dislike? Do you let other people make those decisions for you? Are you one of those people who completes puzzle games for someone else, does someone else's homework or essay for him or her, gives away all the answers, not allowing him or her to learn how to do those things by himself or herself? Do you hover or act like a helicopter person?