Men and Empathy

I don't 100% hate males (only 99%), but since deciding a man has to show me empathy before I give any to them I haven't been able to be empathetic to many at all. It's sad how selfish they are. In general obviously. If you're going to cry "not all men" then you're clearly not an exception. It's just embarrassing when men complain about not getting enough empathy from women when they give none, like men trying to justify abusing women because supposedly women are just as bad. Even though if that were true they would be wanting to highlight and stop the kind of abuse women talk about, not shut women up. Men's selfishness makes for some pretty hypocritical and braindead takes sometimes in the manosphere.