I Hate Men Sometimes

I will i'm just annoyied because the whole picture is what matters most..

It's good that you care about the big picture. But you can't fix it all, so there is no point in placing energy where it does you little good. Doing the things you can, not doing the things you can't and having the strength to know the difference. (Paraphraised serenity prayer)@ItsDanny:

@JoanieNewHampshire: I am getting bad vibes just because I am male not because of what I do,this is what i'm trying to say,because of the whole prcture..

@ItsDanny: I actually understand and feel the same. Because I'm transgender, I never identified with being male. But to survive I had to put on a persona of one of the boys. It gave me great insight being around men and seeing how they act. Then trying to put a nice spin to my presentation when I had to be a boy. A lot of "men" were threatened by my softening what thier idea of masculine or manly was.
And today, I don't pretend to be that kind of man at all when I have to be in male guise. And I hate the automatic association by people I come in contact with to treat me or see me as male. All those feelings go away when I walk out the door as Joanie.

@JoanieNewHampshire: you see my point..

I do@ItsDanny: