Its frustrating
When you try to tell and justify your actions with logic your family doesnt hear you atall and then starts gaslighting you like you are the one at flaw
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Logic or emotional reasoning yes. They act like it's BS. I know the feeling. It's the best example of "talking to a brick wall".
I grew up with that kind of environment and it sank so deep into my psyche that in my adult life I can't even argue with people. My mind just freezes up and it "looks" like I'm wrong because I have nothing to say. But it's really that I just have zero faith that anyone will understand, or if they do, they'll deflect.
I grew up with that kind of environment and it sank so deep into my psyche that in my adult life I can't even argue with people. My mind just freezes up and it "looks" like I'm wrong because I have nothing to say. But it's really that I just have zero faith that anyone will understand, or if they do, they'll deflect.