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Frustrated. 🤦‍♂️

I've disappeared for a few days and I haven't really been as active here much. Idk I've been looking all over the place trying to talk with people. You run into a lot of things. Idk people have been kinda goin bananas way overboard.
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Morrigan · F
Is everything okay?
huskyguy89 · 31-35, M
@Morrigan yeah...just when you're trying to talk to people, meet em on whatever level (not like irl meeting although I'm open to things like that after a time) just trying to talk with people. And like make friends, have some fun, like I'm very flexible conversationally. And someone takes something WAYYY outta proportion, or like just trying to have a meaningful conversation get requests for like...let's just say lewd pics...like I understand. And not necessarily opposed..but like if you're just talking about the usual stuff. "hey how are you?" "not bad, how are you I'm (doing blah blah blah)" immediately follows telling.me.how they are with. "So what kinda underwear are you wearing" and this has been the daily thing..every conversation..
huskyguy89 · 31-35, M
Idk, it's kinda bugging me. Like I'm not even saying I'm opposed to conversation like that. But like it's every day, early into any conversation. Apologies if it's TMI just quickest to explain. 🤦‍♂️
Morrigan · F
@huskyguy89 well as an introvert myself, i need conversation with meaning or I become bored very easily and move on.
huskyguy89 · 31-35, M
@Morrigan you and I both..like there are some days where my brain just isn't firing on all pistons but I feel like that's something else that bugs me. I love to talk with the right people and I'm VERY introverted myself. I just don't like it I talk to someone with honest intent, and they don't stick around. Like some days I'm distracted, (I play games with my friends) or get locked into a book. I'm not perfect or anything, it makes it seem like I'm casting blame, I'll readily admit I bear as much myself.
Morrigan · F
@huskyguy89 i think it can be hard when you put yourself into the conversation, and offer something of meaning but maybe the other person does not feel it, or are surface level, or in my case I can be too intense for people. No fault finding just difference in people
huskyguy89 · 31-35, M
@Morrigan I prefer intensity if I'm honest. I get told alot of the time I'm too serious. Heh 😅