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I've found it helps me move on when I don't hold onto things that have happened in my past.

But if someone is associating you with people you have nothing to do with, just ignore it and live your life.

I've found that by holding into things that never really matter, just wastes time and energy. Even with younger relatives of mine, I've gone through the same struggles they have and I want to tell them, don't worry, none of this is important, like there are worse things that can be happening.

And don't let other people run your life. By giving attention to what other people do, you're letting them run over and take advantage of you.