I Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me

why do people have to be so judgemental , reserved and behave like idiots . I mean there are so many instances in my life where I find people just judging and flaunting themselves . they feel they are always right . make others feel inferior .I used to be one of those poor preys . I used to be an introvert a few years back .I had to work very hard to change that . but not all do change . I try helping some ..others are just left out . judged and sidetracked. it affects some in a serious manner ....

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dorkgerdo

Forget them, don't give them the time of day. They do this for differnt reasons. For some it is a matter of insecurities, for others, they are just sad, miserable people, and as such it as all they can emulate, and or want others around them as sad as they are.
Some, just like being mean and causing sorrow around everyone but them.
No matter what the reason, they have a few things in common. They are weak in mind and spirit, and are unwilling or unable to change for the better. They either refuse to see them selves as they really are, or realize what type of leoe they are and choose to stay the same because it is easier to lash out at others rather the than embark on a mission of self improvement.
Some of them, it is the only way they know how to get attention, and they would rather have negative negative attention that none at all.
Just take them with a grain of salt and move on. They aren't worth the time or the energy to process them nor there judgements.

souravmisra · 26-30, M

I agree with a partial of what you say ..but here is where I draw the line. . I don't want to ignore them . That has never worked ..I want to change their thought process . Make them know they are wrong . Spread the good word and share the good stuff .. Ignoring something had never changed the situation . It just changes you . I don't want to change for someone else . I would rather work towards a better society :)

dorkgerdo

That is a good ambition to have bit many of them don't won't to change or just won't acknowledge that they have a need to.change. I do.commend you on your positive and helpful attitude towards all the unmediated judgment in this life.