I Hate Conflict

I have an unhealthy desire to be liked so I will always avoid conflict. I will always go above and beyond to do favours for other people who always end up hating me. Logically, I know it is bad and I need to change so I am inviting any ideas on how I can get used to being hated so I can get on with standing for my rights!

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destinyfabulous · 36-40, F

if u Go above and beyond...ull be seen as a push over eventually. Ull be less likely to be respected. Let them know u for you....and they will see u for that and respect that.

I'm glad u posted this because I am dealing w this also. I tend to not complain and everyone expects me to be that way....so when I do make a suggestion they see it as a attitude.