I Hate Conflict

Mutual respect is the key to any successful relationship. I feel that conflicts can only increase when both partners refuse to listen to the other person and pride takes over and clouds their judgement.

I don't mind to give my man the right to have "the last word" if he would listen and consider my opinion seriously. In the end, it's not about being right, it's about what is best for both of us.

How do you guys resolve conflicts in relationship? Do you believe that one partner should have the last word?

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SW-User

No, I don't think one partner having a last word is a good idea for most people .. especially if it is just to end the discussion because they don't want to deal with it. One person driving things that way usually leads to resentment, loss of self for the other. Rather unacceptable way to live in what is supposed to be a mutually beneficial arrangement.

Madeleine · 41-45, F

@SW-User I agree, but how should they solve the issue?

SW-User

@Madeleine .. Guess it depends on the nature of it and who it's an issue for .. but to me it should be discussed and some level of resolution agreed to .. and the agreement upheld in actions after. For instance - I looked at options and started working from home after my wife raised concerns about impact of my commute on our home life. In an ideal world, both partners would have some give and take around things to try and find mutually satisfactory outcomes as much as possible.