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What would you do?

Today I was talking to one of my fairly new coworkers and I usually pretty much get along with her however today when I was talking to her on the phone she mentioned something about something being annoying and everything kinda happen to fast I don’t know if she called me annoying or what we were doing annoying. Anywho it has been bothering me all day since after work.

I am wondering if tomorrow I should ask her “oh hey btw did you call me annoying or what the task we were doing annoying?”

On one hand I want to ask her because it’s bothering me and I was just beginning to feel comfortable with her and on the other hand I want to not tell her because if she didn’t say it I would feel awkward and it’s work which means I really won’t have to come in contact with her as much BUT since this interaction I have been feeling irritated not knowing as it kinda happened all to fast where and than we had to clock out.
SW-User
I’d let it slide but keep that in the back of my head. You calling it out is just going to make it awkward.

It seems like you still haven’t gotten a good read on this new coworker. It’s best to be calm and neutral with her until you know her better. I wouldn’t try to make friends out of coworkers in the first place though.
Blondily · F
In my opinion you heard her incorrectly. I'd just say casually that while you were on the phone she said something annoyed her and you'd like to know what it was so you could help her with it. Simple!
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
If she isn't treating you differently I would just move on and assume she meant something or someone else.
NewRaven · 51-55, F
I would recommend to bluntly tell them that you tend to take some time to process things and you need some clarification. Then you’ll know and your mind won’t have to make crap up anymore
ihavenoone · 31-35, F
And i think maybe its miscommunication that’s why you are confused what she meant by “annoying” can you elaborate how she delivered that word?
Applepiedom · 56-60, M
Drinking,better leave that one alone
JaneCas · 26-30, F
@Applepiedom may I ask why you suggest this just for curiosity
Applepiedom · 56-60, M
@JaneCas I was drinking. You don't need advice from me when I'm drinking lol
ihavenoone · 31-35, F
May i know how you get to talk on the phone? Are you at home already or at work?

 
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