Nobody owes you anything that day you turn 18
I provided for myself at age 15 , my parents explained to me there was no money and I had my own , I didnt throw an fit or go mad , I smiled and was beyond happy I was trusted enough to support myself , my dad used to take horse riding but I always paid for my own lessons , yet theres grown ass adults who think the world owes them everything. It doesnt matter it is your parents or partner or if your married , that day you turn 18 you arent entilted to anything , people can choose to help or buy you things IF they want , they arent obliged to. Im sick of seeing grown ass adults abuse their parents or partner over not getting provided for or that video game they wanted. I love both of my parents and now Im buying them things , I support my dad finically because I WANT to. He tries to buy me things but I pay him back , I never ask him for anything expect for an lift but I pay petrol. His girlfriend screams at him and threatens him if he doesnt buy her anything. Also , your gender doesnt mean your partner should pay for you , its their choice , Stop using people as an bank and support yourself. My partner suprises me with things , I always try to pay but he doesnt accept it , thats his choice but I wouldnt ever expect him to buy me anything. I earn way more than he does so I go out my way to try to provide for him but he doesnt accept it 😹 but as im saying nobody is entiled to anything , people have the rights to choose not to support you finically , also , youre parents dont hate you for cutting you off finically , mine wanted me to learn good money skills now Im an very successful business owner and im my familes top earner.