I am always torn between wanting a cosy, sweet homemaker life nesting with babies and baking and wanting a passionate, vibrant life of reading poetry in the bath with my lover, and deep conversations with friends and painting all night?
How can I ever decide which life suits? When I’m fragile I want the former when I’m bored by life I want the latter?
It depends on the stage of your life, for me when I was younger I had a wild youth and then settled down with the usual family stuff and jobs. I am now mid 50’ and single and I definitely want that bohemian life again
I'm not planning to settle down anytime soon, but I still desire a secure lifestyle. That will open doors to many more exciting adventures and opportunities.