Do you have a certain flirting style? How is that working for you?

yes, sure, everyone does... usually, i just sit at a bar in a club until a guy comes up, offers to buy me a drink. we chat a little, nothing heavy... then, when we have both bought each other a drink, i explain, unless his name is really Belinda and that bulge in his trousers isn't, in fact, a penis, he is wasting both our times...

most guys get it first time - some need an explainer...