Imagine walking in on your gf having sex with someone else and them playing it off like "it's just harmless flirting" not that this actually happened

"there's nothing to my harmless flirting" except for the hope that the other person will take it further 😈

Except your harmless flirting looks like regular flirting.

My god. The things I allowed, when does the anger stop? 😂

I made it so easy for you. I was so easy.

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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

Have boundaries, you are not being unreasonable when you do.
Take your time , get counciling if you believe it will help, fully heal before moving on, would be my advice.

I'm sorry this happened to you, lots of narsssicist idiots these days

SailorMarz · F

@Justmeraeagain I had none. I was too worried about not pushing them away lol.

I don't think she was a narcissist. I'm not sure what it was. Idk if she just knew how to manipulate my emotions, or if she just really had no idea that what she was doing could possibly make me feel upset.

Then again, how could she know. I didn't say a word. I just let things happen. So I know I played a huge part and I'm just angry that I put someone else first than me.

I never get anything back from doing that lol just resentment.