I think if you are over 40 you should just give up on love if you haven't found it yet
You missed the deadline, it's over.
It was probably a character flaw of yours. Maybe you were out of shape your whole life. Oh well, you can't change the past.
Choose your cats, find the best hookers and support their drug habits, turbo charge your career, buy a sports car, go full nerd on your hobbies.
It aint that bad. I speak from experience
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