I kinda wonder if the guys haven't gotten gunshy. The legal ramifications and ruinous expenses of what can happen if you get too close to another person and things go sideways are profound even before marriage. Then there is the whole red pull / blue pill thing.
Red Pill Relationship Definition: An ideology claiming that men have "woken up" to a harsh, hidden truth: that society, dating, and marriage fundamentally favor women and are ruined by feminism.
Core Beliefs: Adherents believe women are inherently hypergamous (seeking high-status or high-earning partners), transactional, and manipulative.
Behavior: Men with this mindset often view dating as a strategic game of dominance, manipulation, and asserting control or "alpha male" status to avoid being exploited by women.
Blue Pill Relationship Definition: A term used by red-pill adherents to describe people who accept mainstream, traditional, or egalitarian views on romance and gender roles.
Core Beliefs: Believing that romantic relationships should be based on mutual respect, genuine emotional connection, equality, and partnership rather than gender warfare.
Behavior: Within these online subcultures, being "blue-pilled" is used as an insult to label a man as weak, naive, or overly compliant with societal norms.