ISTG THE SECOND I TURN 18/19 IM GOING TO GO FIND AN OLDER NO BS 30ISH YEAR OLD LADY

cus I genuinely can't with people my age anymore. This one girl? Thought she was nice. She reached out to me, talked for a bit, liked her a bit... then a few days later, one of her (former?) Friends DMs me, saying she's not good, probably has something (STD) and when I asked her about it, she didn't even deny it. Istg dating as gen-z is making me glad my dad beat me as a child 💔💔💔