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Do men cry if they think their woman is upset?

When my bf makes me upset I just get so mad I leave him on read and go silent. Immature of me, I know, but I’d rather give him the silent treatment instead of saying something I don’t mean. Anyway, hours later when I see him his cute blue eyes are usually red from crying. He says he gets worried about what’s going on through my head. This has happened multiple times. Is this common or is my man just sensitive?
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ineedadrink · 56-60, M
Thst sounds pretty sensitive to me.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
My husband rarely cried but I could see the concern in his eyes when he was worried about me.
496sbc · 41-45, M
thats pretty good but then like he knows ur mad.
KimberlyB · 36-40, F
Men dont...lol
496sbc · 41-45, M
@SilentObZerver but he might cry. u dont know
@496sbc
Women cry for many reasons

If a man cries its for a reason
496sbc · 41-45, M
@SilentObZerver yeah i know
Horace · M
If I did, she accused me of faking it. 🤦🙄
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
What does he do that gets you upset ? And then cries when you are?
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
I wouldn't do that, but everyone is different. How old is he? Is this his first relationship?
DeadOrbit · 36-40
I don't know what is normal. Nothing about how i was raised was normal.
What a vicious circle !!
swirlie · 31-35, F
@DareToSayIT
Also known a 'vicious drama'!
swirlie · 31-35, F
I think your boyfriend is probably a bonafide gay man, so don't be surprised by any future outcome without him.
@swirlie just cos he cried?
swirlie · 31-35, F
@SilentObZerver
No, because as evidence from her whole post, it's obvious to me that her boyfriend uses certain tactics to elicit emotional responses from her which only a gay man could pull off successfully every time.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Make sure he knows that you're trying to keep your anger in check, because some might look at shutting down communication as controlling or manipulative. I do the same thing(clam up so I don't say something I regret), and my fiancee knows that. Sometimes I say "I have to cool off...let's talk later"
Men dont cry...or at least most dont cry....
Bcos men are more about trying help you deal with your problem bothering you and not how they feel about the problem

But do you find him crying attractive though?
lissah · 36-40, F

 
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