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Whose fault was it? And what should be done on this case?

I met a Gemini ♊ I accidentally saw on a video, I texted him we start talking I asked him if he is interested in dating, we are living in two different continents( he is real) anyways he is divorced with a kid, I really liked him, he is something, I started asking him if there are others messaging him and that he should stop talking to them. One day I told him that he wasn’t answering me on purpose and he was on date with a girl. He blocked me. I didn’t reach out from other accounts I didn’t know what to do.. what do you think about the situation ? Should I reach out to him? It’s been 16 days since he blocked me and we only talked about 5 days.. on instagram. Please tell me what to do. Xoxo
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After 5 days of talking? I’d run, too.
mellie · 26-30, F
@Mamapolo2016 Oh, thank goodness.
GoFish ·
ah let him go he's a player anyway why give yourself grief ?
mellie · 26-30, F
@GoFish how would you know ?
Don't run after him
mellie · 26-30, F
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
Let him go. Next time don’t make those demands. That’s why he blocked you because he senses toxicity.
mellie · 26-30, F
@Jenny1234 I am not toxic I swear. I am a Leo girl and I am possessive by nature. He could have reassured me a little no?
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
@mellie no he did not need to reassure you. You’ve only been talking to him for five days. You’re not even his girlfriend at that point. You’re only interviewing at that stage.
Theyitis · 36-40, M
No, you shouldn’t. Most importantly because he blocked you. If you try to circumvent his block it’s disrespectful and comes off as desperate.

Additionally, he lives on another continent and you only chatted for five days. It’s a lot of trouble to go to for someone you don’t even know very well. There are plenty more fish in the sea so to speak. Look elsewhere.
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
He might think you’re a little possessive
mellie · 26-30, F
@DownTheStreet I am possessive
I’ve been stabbed in the back by my exes I have a hard time trusting a guy so I smother them
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
@mellie but smothering them is going about it the wrong way. You have to remember that not every guy is like your ex and so you have to trust them until they give you a reason not to. But if you don’t work on that first, then you probably shouldn’t be dating if you smother and give them ultimatums like that because that’s not healthy for any of you.
Kiesel · 56-60, M
Leave him be
Sounds like a blessing in disguise for you
mellie · 26-30, F
@Kiesel still haven’t replied to him.
I am playing hard to get 🤭
Kiesel · 56-60, M
@mellie lol
Let me know how that goes for ya in this situation
mellie · 26-30, F
@Kiesel deal xoxo 💋
ironborn · 51-55, M
Forget him.
mellie · 26-30, F
@ironborn why?
ironborn · 51-55, M
@mellie you want him for yourself..he doesnt want exclusive.
mellie · 26-30, F
@ironborn that’s not what he told me during our conversations.
Before he blocked me he sent me real time picture that he was with his friends…
dale74 · M
Never be an item with someone you never met in real life
mellie · 26-30, F
@dale74 he actually told me that he was fearful of long distance relationships…
Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M
Of course not.
mellie · 26-30, F
@Fukfacewillie can you elaborate ?
Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M
@mellie #self-respect
caccoon · 36-40
Girl asking someone to stop talking to other people is crazy. And after five days? Yeesh

 
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