Went to a date for the first time in a while..

What a disgrace 😂
Oh my God.

Worst than my first date ever .. at least back then it was considered cute and innocent 😆 ..

Basically, she was a pretty lady, I got nervous, tried to bring my A game and ended up talking... Talking... Talking... And talking 🤦🏼‍♂.

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DancingStarGoddess ·

So it was bad bc you talked too much you mean? 😯 Or she did?

ASLAN · 31-35, M

@DancingStarGoddess it's not that I talked too much.. it's the look she was giving me when I realized I was having a verbal diarrhea 😆🤦🏼‍♂

DancingStarGoddess ·

@ASLAN ohhh! Lol I see, perhaps not so good then. Maybe she understands you were just nervous. Dating these days isn't the easiest thing.

ASLAN · 31-35, M

@DancingStarGoddess
Well, I apologized of course and tried to give her a room to speak too.. but, it's pretty hard to recover from such first impression 😂.

DancingStarGoddess ·

@ASLAN I wouldn't think so, unless she's kinda overly judgemental or something. Some people just like to talk, or keep talking to fill the silence bc the other person isn't talking enough and it makes them feel awkward. Frankly there are worse things a person could be or do than be a chatterbox. Lol. If that's all it takes to fall out of her good graces I'd say you're better off. 🤷🏾

ASLAN · 31-35, M

@DancingStarGoddess

Well that look said a lot of things darling
From ''Oh boy'' to ''Help'' 😂

At least we laughed about for while when I apologized and explained that it's been a while and add compliments about her look and praised the efforts she put on .. you know 😅.

In the other hand I was disappointed in myself actually..

DancingStarGoddess ·

@ASLAN awws, I understand 🩷 it's kinda like "ugh, dammit why did I do that?" 😩

LadyGrace ·

@ASLAN I don't think that situation was ruined. So you were nervous. Next time maybe it will come easier and you won't feel the urge to dominate the conversation. All you have to do is make a conscious effort to just try to relax and maybe ask her a question and then let her talk. She'll like that you asked her questions. That shows your interest in her. I think you should try it again. This time you'll be better prepared but I don't think it was ruined at all. I'm sure she could see that you were nervous.