Ooh....i have an opinion on this ! (For what its worth🤷♀)
i ve dated nearly all body types, from long and lean, to short and tubby. From body builder to skinny .
Too soft all over and, (this is just my psychological damage).... they kinda feel like me.
I wanna be the soft squishy one😏
Too muscley is hard to cuddle up to....its really not that comfortable, a bit of mush is nice
The nicest was 'kinda inbetween: strong deeper muscles with a bit of softness over the top.
When you hold onto them its kinda nice to feel your fingers grab into their flesh....you can hold on. Too muscley - and its not so easy.
But i imagine every woman is different