She asks, you offer to pay regardless. If she insists, ask her if you can cover the tip.
Either way, if you’re a man, you should be prepared to pay in either scenario.
My wife and I both have good jobs. We had our own rule. Your town, you pay. Most of the time that was fun and worked. If we were going somewhere very expensive, I picked up the check no matter what the location was.
On vacation we just tried to have some semblance of fairness based on overall spending.
