Dating is a two way street - both guys and girls are letting the ball hit the ground and scrape

Us girls are not saints in all this, but many think they are taking the social and moral high ground approach and that should make them superior to the guys who make approaches. ie. the men should serve women view.

I tend to shrug off guy approaches and far prefer other girls or couples since guys expect rumpy pumpy (in most cases) from the get-go.